Brandon talks with Nancy about her marriage with a controlling physical abuser. It’s a story of gaslighting, defensive abuse, addiction, and smear campaigns. Plus they discuss, sexual abuse, withholding, infidelity, neglect, blaming, guilt, trauma, crazy making, health issues, invalidating police officers, isolation, rage, manipulation, post separation abuse, coercive control, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING – This episode contains graphic descriptions of physical and sexual abuse. ***

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