The Early Warning Signs of an Abuser & Is This Abuse? – Q&A

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Brandon discusses Lundy Bancroft’s early warning signs of an abuser and is the way you’re being treated abuse. Plus he discusses the cycle of abuse, patterns of abuse, gaslighting, triangulation, jealousy, intimidation, control, sexual coercion, hypocrisy, blame shifting, devaluation, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING – Physical Abuse, Sexual Coercion, & Sexual Assault is mentioned in this episode. ***

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