Erin & The Helpful Protective Abuser – Domestic Abuse, Narcissist Abuse, Emotional Abuse

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Erin was an emotionally neglected child with a generational legacy of stoicism, hiding painful truths, and no real experience with love or healthy relationships. The marriage she thought would be her happily-ever-after led to 20 years of confusion, heartbreak, anger, and betrayal.

It’s a story of victim playing, gaslighting, shame, isolation, avoidance, anger, misogyny, fear, codependency, fixing, deceit, financial abuse, intimidation, minimization, no empathy, and healing. *** CONTENT WARNING – Discussion of physical intimidation and an accident causing death. ***

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