December & The Carrot Dangling Abuser – Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse, IPV

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December and her future ex-boyfriend became fast friends through their local music scene. December felt seen for the first time, but the relationship December wanted was dangled in front of her like a carrot on a moving stick. Always out of reach, yet not. 

It’s a story of triangulation, gaslighting, minimization, adoption, fear, control, isolation, suicide attempts, suicide threats, physical abuse, sexual coercion, push/pulls, self acceptance, put downs, self worth, despair, relief, the player, financial abuse, lies, fake illnesses, jealousy, hypocrisy, self defense, and much more.

*** CONTENT WARNING – This episode discusses suicide attempts, suicide threats, sexual coercion, and physical abuse in graphic detail. ***

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