Natalie & The Controlling Victim Player – Domestic Abuse, Narcissist Abuse, Emotional Abuse

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Natalie locked eyes at an event with her future ex, and unbeknownst to Natalie, chaos would inhabit her life for the next 3.5 years. Natalie’s abuser masterfully manipulated her kindness to maintain control over her, using gaslighting, triangulation, compulsive lying, silent treatments, and more to keep her line. And when Natalie finally had enough of the abuse, her ex hoovered back many times, used smear campaigns, and relentlessly harassed her to maintain any control she could get.

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