Bay & The Abusive Serial Cheater – Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse, Codependency

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At the beginning of Bay’s 27-year relationship, her husband said and did everything right. However, once they married, subtle signs of abuse slowly appeared. And like the frog in a boiling pot of water, Bay was being cooked alive, and she didn’t even know it.

It’s a story of serial infidelity, lies, victim playing, abuse cycles, codependency, smear campaigns, love bombing, triangulation, in-laws, self discovery, gaslighting, blame shifting, crazy making, hoovering, love bombing, financial abuse, sexual coercion, suicidal ideation, threats, ghosting, guilt, fixing, future faking, dissociation, rage, temper tantrums, and much more.

*** CONTENT WARNING – This episode discusses sexual coercion, suicidal ideation, suicide threats, very strong language revolving around gun use and brief mention of physical abuse from a previous relationship. ***

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