Agatha & The Goal Post Moving Abuser | Coercive Control & Narcissistic Abuse

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Agatha shares her journey of dealing with a narcissistic ex-husband, detailing their 15-year marriage marked by emotional and psychological abuse. Agatha began her like as a people pleaser in training, which carried into her adult life. Agatha recounts how her ex’s possessiveness and control escalated over time, leading to isolation and financial abuse.

It’s a story of moving goal posts, rage, enmeshment, sexual abuse, financial abuse, double standards, entitlement, belittling, undercutting, putdowns, gaslighting, control disguised as love, isolation, perfect pictures, zero responsibility, zero accountability, shame, the fog, kernels of truth, people pleasing, divorce, self love, custody, and the healing process.

*** CONTENT WARNING – This episode discusses sexual abuse. ***

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